SearchAdvantages of free dating
1] It is free of course you pay no money
2] Increasingly popular so large number of members
3] False profiles by dating sites trying to make more money less common. Yahoo and match.com were recently taken to court for this.
Disadvantages of free dating
Even though we have listed only two advantages they more than make up for the long list of disadvantages
1] Profile verification can be a problem but even on paying dating sites there is no gaurantee the profiles are genuine
2] Advertising common on dating sites. But usually unobstrusive
3] Scams common on free dating sites but most users well aware.
4] Data security privacy can be a problem on some free dating sites.
Please add your comments about free dating so we can have a lively discussion.
Now a bit more about free dating;
Now a days, any body can date anybody. We are social animals, sociology says so. Are we?
Tom dated his friend’s wife, Anne. Don’t ask why! It just happened! And what will happen if and when her husband, Joe, finds out! Anne got married just three years ago. Tom is a bachelor, still. Their rendezvous at the Riverside retreat was spotted by some one in their neighborhood. A storm is brewing up, just around the corner, which might shake the very foundation of the marriage.
Tom and Anne, looked calm and composed, enjoying each other’s company. What are they whispering about! The older generation glared at them. Shameless creatures!
Internet created very suitable climate for boy friends and girl friends. They could communicate any time, even from a very long distance. Free Dating became the easiest thing to do. They could talk to each other, with ease. No need to look at each other. Ask her for a date. She will accept, after a long pause. Boys grew bolder. They expressed their love, boldly. Romance bloomed.
The rest of the world passed by, indifferent. The traffic hissed by, vehemently. It was water under the bridge, a quiet witness to the world.
Any body can date every body!
It is free dating. Social obligations are limited to a few. The younger generations are eager to find new friends. They plan to explore new territories. Like a one year old, learning to walk, they fall down sometimes. They get into all sorts of troubles. It is part of the game. Shouldn’t they be guided?
No, it won’t work. Nobody will listen to you. They will simply ignore you. They are like Tom and Anne.
For many youngsters, it is a way of finding their mates. It is a way to find new friends, to form a group of friends to share their common interest. For students, poets and painters it helps, to share knowledge and information. For all the professionals and farmers, they need a group of friends to discuss matters of importance. In short, we all need somebody or the other. Why not date? Add a little spice! You got a date.
Tom and Anne enjoyed the rendezvous, at a quiet corner. Looks like, there was a strong physical attraction. Do they have the same wavelength? How did they stumble into this situation? A conspiracy! A chance meeting? So many questions and so many answers! Will they get out of this newly formed friendship? Will they try to?
May be they will. There is someone to deal with. It is not just someone! Anne has her husband to deal with.
It is free dating! You are free to date anyone. It is free! It is a free world, out there. Dating has nothing to do with anything at all. Only when it is not platonic, strings are attached to this Free Dating! Does that make sense? It does. Attached strings are noticed, by some. Some pretend to ignore that. But strings do exist in every Dating. Platonic Dating has other names given to it.
Free Dating is a platform to discover hitherto unknown friendships. Friendship can bloom into intense relationship or love, which will lead to new roads to deeper human relationships, such as marriage. After passing through different, progressive stages from the first dating, it reaches its destiny. Happy ending!
Tom and Anne will continue to date again, more discreetly. No matter how discreet they are, the relationship is too conspicuous to hide. It bulges out. Their love affair, if that is what it is all about, will meet certain disaster. There has to be one victim, at least. Will that be Tom or Joe? Anne will have to endure emotional torture!
When you look at the situation and the three individuals with a microscope, you will observe three excruciatingly painful bleeding emotional wrecks.
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