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Technologies are making things easier for the younger generation, or young at heart. All you have to do is to choose your girl or boy. May be you should choose three or four, just to be on the safe side. Go through her profile and photograph, if available. Study her profile carefully. Try to understand her better. Find a way.

If you can’t, establish a contact through the Dating Site. And then, dig out the much needed information. Start chatting, as long as possible. The length of chatting should produce some results. The subject of conversation can be anything you both like. Try different subjects until you stumble on the common territory, the mutually appealing topic. Start with songs or movies. Go on to reading, on to books, favorite authors, best sellers and so on. Poems and poets, Film stars, Hollywood, Latest Albums, Movie magazines, gossip columns, any particular gossip that caught your attention and all these or some of these conversations should produce tell-tale emotions such as excitement, anger, frustrations, fear, sadness etc. Observe the emotion and excitement, and you will find the interesting topic. And the personality can be identified. If you are there, at the common ground, you got it. You both have something in common. Work on it, and gradually steer away towards other interesting territories, until you find other subjects of common interest.

During the first few online chatting, everything you conveyed to each other is platonic. Still you both shy away from romance and its color. And yet it is on the tip of your tongue. You want to ask who her boyfriend is, and what his name is. Though you hate the answer, you will still want to know. Finally, you take a deep breath and gather sufficient courage and ask. After a slight pause, the answer appears on the monitor screen. You let out the breath slowly.

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You entered the second phase of online chatting. Whatever may have been the answer, the ice is broken. Even if it is to say, ‘it is none of your business’. Both the parties concerned will slowly realize they entered the second phase; the tender words are just around the corner. Chatting speed slows down. Heart beats pick up speed. Anxiety mounts. What is she going to ask next, what is he going to type next. The clock on the wall ticks.

Then suddenly one counter question pops up. Who is your friend? What’s her name? The answer is evasive. No one in particular. Only casual acquaintances. Words are chosen carefully. Question bounced back. Where did you meet her? Is she pretty?

Don’t jump to conclusions. There is no one. Don’t you believe me? A long pause this time.

After a long while, the clouds cleared. They got back to chatting again, slowly. They didn’t come back to the boy friend-girl friend topic. For a while the chatting caused no ripples.

Then he blurted out. He had no steady girl friends, ‘hi’, friends only. They don’t count. That was of course a lie. But it worked. The chatting speed picked up speed. They are back on track. Back to Romance.

They both were excited. All their friends had thrilling romances going on. Some of them plan to elope. And some of them, are making plans for their wedding. Her close friend is getting married, before Christmas. They planned their honeymoon in Europe, too. May be Austria. How wonderful! Don’t you agree?

Now, they decided to meet. They do want to see each other. Is she beautiful? Is he cute? They wondered. When can they meet? Where?

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