Online Singles

The technology today has a lot to offer to the singles, the unmarried. The internet offers friendship and companionship. You can chat with any one, any time of the day or night. There are plenty of registered singles looking for a date or chatting. You will never be lonely. There is always some one online. It might take time to identify some good friends, boys or girls.

There are several people in this world who prefer to live alone. They enjoy their privacy. They do their daily chores at their own free time or will. There is pleasure in their freedom. They eat when they are hungry. They drink if and when they are thirsty. No one to press the control button. Free like a bird. Isn’t it wonderful? May be, or may be not!

When you do find some interesting friends especially the opposite sex, fluent in chatting and sharp in answering you will enjoy every moment of it. There is rhythm in their chatting. There is the fragrance of romance that inspires sweet conversations. Poems or poetic expressions sing melodies in their minds. Asleep or awake smiles remain glued to their lips. Sitting or walking a romantic glow illuminates their facial expressions. They focus on their next chatting session. Anticipations and longing towards the next chatting keep them preoccupied. The words dance with romantic rhythm and enter right into their hearts. They relish each syllable passed on between them. They cherish each moment of their chatting.

Wonderful? It is for some time. They’d prefer to stay afloat on the clouds. They float with the flow of life like a weightless body in a singing stream. But high tide and low tide disturb them. Fluctuations in their emotional state of mind disturb them, distract them and unsettle them. They can’t stand stress and strain. There is always some incident that cause ripples in their quiet waters. It could be a strike or a political movement. It could be a climatic calamity. It could be an earth quake or a Tsunami. A tragic incident in the family can be equal to an earth quake. Parents and brothers or sisters can cause a lot of disturbances or grief.

It can never be the same. It will never remain quiet, like a one year old boy. Life is like that. Biological necessities cause distractions and day dreams. Biological aches and urges create strong emotional ripples. Some times it is difficult to contain such high tides. Restraints may weaken and emotional explosions could ruin the stability of life.

Occasions like this over power the resolves and the dating can lead to life long commitments. On line chatting will give way to serious discussions of marriage. Sweet nothings and poetic romance will give way to usher in matrimonial considerations.

It is no longer romantic. There is no time to express love. They will be deeply engrossed in dresses and furniture. Flowers and singing birds would be replaced with house hold pests and difficult relatives.

They are not online singles any more. After marriage the demand for them diminishes. Their online friends are engaged else where. Though they would continue chatting with their old friends, the tone will change. The tune is less romantic and ordinary.

This aspect of the singles online, discourage many. Such persons would prefer to continue their bachelor status. In this case, there is an element of risk. The bold decision to remain single will cost them heavily. Biological urges will lead them to accept invitations of the flesh. If this happens once, it will happen again. Eventually, the chatting and romantic conversations will subside and promote biological collaborations and vulgar relationships.